What is an orgasm?
Taoists regard the
orgasm as the combined essences of all the body's vital organs. Each
organ and gland participates in the orgasmic process as follows:
- 1. The five
senses create an environment for an orgasm as we become aroused
through particular sights, sounds, feelings, scents, and tastes.
These external senses arouse our internal senses, which give rise
to the essences that initiate an orgasm.
- 2. The brain
receives the message of arousal from the outer senses and translates
it, directing the body to create an orgasm from its best life-force
energy.
- 3. The essences
of all vital organs contribute to an orgasm. As each is supplied
with Chi, more sexual energy is aroused.
- (a) In
women the liver supplies the necessary essence that creates
the lubricating fluid. The essences of the heart and kidneys
stimulate and maintain the erection of a woman's breasts, vagina,
and clitoris.
- (b) In
men the heart and kidneys supply the essences that stimulate
and maintain an erection. When these organs are weak, a full
erection cannot be achieved, and the other organs are depleted
as they must supply more energy for the sexual act.
- 4. The glands
also supply essential energies to the orgasmic process, especially
the pineal, pituitary, and adrenalin glands.
- 5. Finally,
the sexual organ itself becomes aroused, supplying the sexual essence
that creates orgasmic energy. An orgasm, then, is comprised of major
inner alchemy changes that reflect the best of the body's internal
energies at any given moment.
Taoists believe that when a man
and woman join together to make love, their orgasmic energy joins together
as well as their the sperm and egg, combining the Universal, Cosmic
Particle, and Earthly Forces. (Taoists refer to this process as the
Reunion of Heaven and Earth.) The process is so powerful that it can
create a new human life, supplying enough of these forces to nourish
the fetus in the womb through the nutrients supplied by its mother.
Those who do not want children, but still waste their sexual energy
through common sexual practices, should consider that such a waste of
potential life-force is foolish and unnecessary. People unknowingly
deplete themselves of energy in numerous ways, thereby destroying their
health. By redirecting sexual energy into the internal organs and glands,
they can have the best sex and the most energy to heal and rejuvenate
their bodies.
What is the difference between
an internal orgasm and an outward orgasm?
Generally, common
orgasms are mere pulsations of the genitals which occur only in the
genital region. (They are referred to as genital or outward orgasms.)
For men, such orgasms are short in duration and cannot be repeated
once the seminal fluid is gone. Although a woman's experience lasts
longer, there is not much benefit to her body if her sexual energy
is habitually left unattended only to drain out during menstruation.
The loss of Ching Chi can affect anyone's health and sexuality as
the depletion of life-force becomes apparent even in one's external
appearance.
An internal orgasm, which leads to a total body orgasm, occurs throughout
the entire body (as well as in the genitals). It can be extended in
its duration and repeated for hours. By moving the pulsation of the
orgasm up to the higher centers of the body, Ching Chi can be retained
and the orgasmic sensation increased tenfold. (This also retains the
seminal fluid in men.) If one knows how to maintain orgasms for long
periods of time, the Universal and Earthly Forces can be activated
and combined into a higher bliss, which is a powerful healing energy.
The only reason one should ejaculate or allow the loss of Ching Chi
to occur is for the purpose of having children. Unfortunately, people
carelessly lose their health in their quest for genital orgasms. Ejaculation
causes a brief sensation in which sexual energy is passed out of the
body and lost. Women who lose energy are also deprived of true sexual
pleasure and satisfaction. Internal orgasms are a healthier and longer
lasting approach to sex with no loss of stimulation to the genitals.
The sensations actually travel through all of the organs, glands,
and nerves, thrilling and revitalizing them with sexual energy.
Why do some religions attack
sex, creating a lot of taboos against it?
Some religions attack
sex, creating a lot of fear and re affirming ancient taboos because
sexual energy can be a very powerful tool for those who make use of
it. Like fire, it can be controlled if used in a proper way. Fire
can cook your food, warm your house, and help to provide a comfortable
life. If it is misused, however, it can burn down your house and kill
someone. Another example is water, which can quench our thirst or
drown someone. The same principle applies to sexual energy, which
can benefit anyone's health. Unfortunately, some religions have condemned
it while trying to prevent its misuse, thereby promoting confusion.
Through their practice of celibacy, masters, monks, nuns, and priests
learn how to use sexual energy to enhance their virtues and connect
with the highest force, or God. By focusing upon God as a means of
raising sexual energy up to the higher centers of their bodies, they
transform it into virtuous energy, which enhances their spiritual
growth (referred to as reunion with God, or the Higher Bliss). This
can only occur when sexual energy is conserved and transferred up
to the higher centers and the crown to attract the higher force.
Sexual energy is neutral. It should not be judged as good or bad,
but it can multiply any positive or negative quality that exists within
each us. This same sexual energy, which can create another human being,
or enhance one's spiritual growth, can also increase our negative
states if we neglect to recycle it. The purpose of celibacy is simply
to avoid the loss of Ching Chi, but celibacy alone does not move Ching
Chi up to the higher centers for transformation and reunion with the
higher forces. Also most people find celibacy to be impractical in
daily life. Unfortunately misconceptions about such practices deter
them from learning how to properly control and use sexual energy.
Is there any way besides celibacy
to conserve Ching Chi and transform it?
In studying the nature
of sex, Taoist masters found ways to control and use Ching Chi through
Testicle or Ovarian Breathing, the Power Lock, and the Orgasmic Upward
Draw. These are sexual practices which redirect Ching Chi upward into
the body, rather than outward. These methods can be learned without
having to go through the isolation of celibacy.
How does sexual energy relate
to violence in our society?
When people learn
to conserve their sexual energy, they begin to love, conserve, and
protect nature. When they lose too much Ching Chi through common sexual
practices, or through drugs, alcohol, and smoking, humans can become
progressively destructive. In their constant search for sensorial
excitement through fast sex and addictive substances, some people
become violent without reason or concern for their environment.
It is interesting to note that most businesses in the world try to
appeal to us by overwhelming our senses with sexual information. They
try to attract our attention by promoting interest in the common sexual
orgasm. Unfortunately, society and the business world follow the common
misconception that sex was intended to release pent up energies and
emotions. The truth is that sex is a means of building up the energies
that the body needs. Sexual desire is not really a search for release,
but often it is a search for new sources of energy to replenish lost
Ching Chi.
When too much sexual energy is lost, the brain and sensory organs
become empty. Then people unconsciously seek other sources to fulfill
their desires for stimulation. They desire more orgasmic pleasures
because they are so used to passing Ching Chi out of their bodies
that their need for internal energy becomes desperate. In searching
to fulfill their internal needs, they actually drain themselves more
by relying upon old sexual habits. Unfortunately, drugs and alcohol
also offer the kinds of stimulation (like false orgasms) that further
deplete the body of energy. These substances therefore become addictive
as they weaken the body and mind. The more energy that is lost, the
more the body must replace to achieve high levels of stimulation.
When people smoke, drink, or take drugs, their desires for stimulation
possess them more as their energies decrease.
The Taoists suggest that this state is like a little death, a self-destruction
through over-stimulation of the senses, with vital energies pouring
out. Destructive attitudes gradually increase as these people try
to replace lost Ching Chi through means which further drain them.
This is often the cause of violence, rape, and murder as the search
for sexual energy becomes obsessive. Once the body is in this state,
the subconscious mind carries the destruction further. Its tendency
is to destroy itself and everything around it.
Besides the problems of lust, anger, and violence, there are other
attitudes that are related to greed and obsession. Taoists say, You
can own anything, but don't let anything own you. Money can stimulate
you through the power it offers, but if you allow money to take up
all your time and energy, it will also begin to take over your life.
Such problems occur because we lose so much sexual energy in our daily
lives that we have little or no control over our bodies and minds.
For this reason many religions fear sex and warn their followers to
beware of its potential destructiveness. The problem is that they
do not give their followers some means of controlling this powerful
energy. Many will suggest celibacy, suppression, or restrictions,
and thereby promote confusion about the bad effects of sex. Such suppression
often has a reverse effect. If you withhold emotions for too long,
they eventually explode outward at some unexpected moment, causing
a great disturbance. Similarly, a sexually deprived person may create
a great disturbance when the hold is finally lost on his or her sexual
energy.
Some religious taboos cannot protect society from misuses of sexual
energy, but education can help society to protect itself. Taoism educates
people about true sexual health and how it can enhance the most pleasurable
sensations without draining the body's vital energies. The Taoist
methods do not promote any negativity and have been proven effective
by centuries of testing. They are also an effective way to enhance
the virtue energies. Although masters, monks, nuns, and priests store
Ching Chi through celibacy, the same effects can be achieved with
orgasms through sex as long as Ching Chi is not passed out of the
body.
What are the nine types of orgasms?
Taoists classify
the Total Body Orgasm into nine different types. You can experience
them with a partner or by yourself.
- 1. The Orgasm of the
Brain
During sex, when you or your sex partner feel close to the point
of orgasm, relax long enough to regain control of your sexual energy.
(Men should remember not to become stimulated beyond 90 percent
of their capacity; otherwise they may lose the seminal fluid.) Maintain
your control by using mental power and contractions of the sex organ.
Mentally guide the orgasm up the spine to the brain, then spiral
the energy in your brain using your mind and eyes. You will feel
the orgasm within your head.
Turn your eyes upward to the North Star and the Big Dipper. When
you are at the peak of the brain orgasm, the energy will automatically
attract and combine the Universal and Earthly Forces into a Heavenly
Bliss. Draw in and spiral this energy in your head.
Sometimes an orgasm of the brain is very difficult to explain with
words. Some people feel like they are walking on air; the whole
body flows, and the head seems open. Rest, and enjoy this higher
orgasm with your partner or by yourself. After you and your partner
have experienced brain orgasms, rest, coordinate your breathing,
and circulate the energy in your respective Microcosmic Orbits together.
- 2. The Orgasm of the
Senses
Start the arousal process again. When you feel the orgasmic energy
rise, bring it up into the sensory organs. You can emphasize any
particular sense by focusing on its organ, such as the eyes. Enhance
the eyes, ears, nose, mouth, and skin by drawing orgasmic energy
into them.
NOTE: Upon experiencing an orgasm of the senses, many people give
up smoking, drinking, taking drugs, and other bad habits because
foreign substances that drain the life force can no longer fulfill
the senses.
- 3. The Kidneys' Orgasm
When the energy of the organs builds up in the sexual center, regain
control, rest, and guide the orgasm up to the kidneys, using your
mind to spiral the Ching Chi around them. Try to feel the kidney's
emotional quality of gentleness as it becomes enriched by the orgasmic
energy.
- 4. The Liver's Orgasm
After each draw, rest as you mentally guide the energy upward. (This
can be the fourth draw). Bring the energy up into the liver, and
feel the orgasm there. Concentrate on the feeling of kindness; otherwise,
anger may be produced. Use your mind, relax, and spiral the energy
around the liver. Feel the kindness energy expand.
- 5. The Spleen's Orgasm
Using your mind's eye, guide the orgasm to the spleen and allow
it to enhance the feelings of openness and fairness. The negative
feeling to avoid here is worry.
- 6. The Lungs' Orgasm
Use your mind, guide the energy upward, wrap it around your lungs,
and allow it to nurture the feeling of courage; otherwise, sadness
or depression may result.
- 7. The Heart's Orgasm
This orgasm constitutes what we know as making love. When two people
love each other, their combined energies enhance the feeling. As
love is produced within each of them, their exchange and circulation
of this emotional energy causes it to accrue in the same manner
as Ching Chi. The negative side of this is that someone who wants
to hurt people can accumulate the emotions of hatred, anger, and
frustration in a similar way. This is why it is said that sexual
energy can enhance anything, including negativity, which is what
our religions fear.
NOTE: Up to this point, all orgasms have been related to physical
sex. When you experience all these orgasms and combine them together,
the result is called a Total Body orgasm. The longer you practice,
the longer this orgasm will last. All the organs, glands, senses,
and every bodily cell feels the orgasmic energy at this stage. This
is different from the orgasms felt by the individual organs and
more advanced. When you reach this point, just be aware of the orgasmic
energy at the sexual center and let it flow up to where it needs
to go.
- 8. The Soul Orgasm
(Out-of-Body Orgasm)
As both partners develop their soul bodies, the orgasmic energy
can eventually be transferred into them and circulated. Upon transferring
this energy, both soul bodies should be projected out and merged.
(One's partner should be at the same level of expertise to achieve
this.) Both partners project the orgasm to each other through these
bodies and exchange their energies in the space above them (the
lower mid-plane). At this level, one feels an entirely different
orgasm which lasts a very long time.
- 9. The Spirit Orgasm
At this point, both partners should have the ability to develop
their spiritual bodies for the exchange of orgasmic energy to occur
at the next level, which is the higher mid-plane. They will project
their spirit bodies and the orgasm energy out and merge them together
as they did with their soul bodies. The orgasmic spiritual energy
has the power to absorb the Universal Force, and when it returns,
it thereby increases the life-force tremendously.
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